friend?

treat others the way you want others to treat you.

you expect us to treat you that way but how do you actually treated us? ever thought of that?
no, i don't think so.
we never bother to bring out the events when you left us out, but how sympathetic did you make yourself to be when we left you out?
not because we didn't like you or didn't want you there but because we think of the whole situation to ensure that the meeting will end happily.

and stop saying that we didn't ask you out, but how many times out of it you were busy with your other half that made it a reason for not meeting?
if that's the case, i guess you should take more initiative to make things work out and not whining and complaining to win sympathy.
how did you claim that we are your BEST friends when the best thing isn't dedicated to us?

not mentioning about your 'other half' does not makes me fume but the metioning of it makes me mad!
how can our BEST friend actually shrimp on a mere amount of money for a birthday present just because one is broke?
not like i am not facing the problem of pocket being tight. i am just as broke.
i suppose most of us should know the reason why you did not want to fork out the money, even if it ain't our brain thinking.

so in your opinion, what is your definition of BEST friend?
one who stays with you and get totally neglected when you've got your other half with you and only have you crying to he/she when you quarrel with your other half or when you are out of love he/she offers you a shoulder to lean on?

at times, i really wonder how many times have you reflected on yourself than blame it on others when things happen on you, and made yourself look sympathatically pathetic.
i supposed most of the times you simply put the balme on others.
we can't blame you, because this is a nature of a human being.
but to be a better human being, never stop changing, for the better that is.

i don't know why this sudden entry, but just after yesterday's msn conversation with my dear friend and found out this particular thing left me quite bothered with this person.
the purpose isn't to hurt you, but to leave you in thoughts of whether it is fair to just put blames on us when things happen.
mayb not just to us, but all of your friends.

在家靠父母，出外靠朋友。
the only ones who stay will always be your closest friend yet if you do not cherish, they might just leave you.

all these years i've got a number of good friends whom i hope that the friendship will never end, and i will not want it to end.
you people know who you are.
thanks for being through all the ups and downs will me, the times will never be forgotten.
i hope that i have also been up to your expectations for this period of time. =3

alright, time to get to work!

lastly,

HAPPY CHILDRENS' DAY!!!
儿童节快乐！！！