hypocrites?OBC test is tml!

oh yeah yeah..im gonna post a short 1 b4 i go bathe.

was hm at bt 8+.studied some OBC in sch.thankies mindy!muacks!hehe..no matter hu dun like u i'll lurve u still =) !i promise k?hehe..

wells..i wanna tok abt smthn whichi tink everi1 will experience as part of their life.

frens or foe?

i guess this is the most common contradition one faces in life isn't it?i tink u gotta agree with mi that there r two categories of ppl - 1. nice 2. ugly

yes..sad to sae, u cant choose =(

i used to b veri disturbed by ppl who so called 'back-stabbed' mi, also known as hypocrites.yes..by wat u all say, bad mouth, pretending n all.

u cant choose not to know them, but 1 thing fer sure u can do, is to ignore!ignorance is the best.u c no evil, u hear no evil!

i have the most recent example which i can rem is during sec 5.yes..i tink i tok bt it in one of my posts b4.touching briefly on it again.yes it's btween Beechin n mi..

since sec1 we were loggerheads.all the way till sec 5.we din realli made it up till this yr!yes i muz agree we've both grow up.we both noe tat unless we forgive n forget, if not we r NOT GOING TO GROW UP!thru all these, i've came to realise life cant onli have beautiful memories.coz the bad 1s oso made mi reflect, n realise how childish n silly i am!haha!thanks beechin!i lurve u now!till ever =) !

wells..i guess mani tink like i do, in poly all shld b grown ups n hypocrites n stuff should not b in the trend animore.haha..wells, sorry to u ppl!there's ALWAYS 5% of those ppl u noe will fall under these category!haha..i've heard from frens hu r 20+!haha..see..how scary n powerful is the power of one's mouth!haha!

to mi, i always belive 1 shld treat each other with mutual respect.how u treat others is how others treat u.similarly,treat others u wan them to treat u =) .of course u can "tok bad" bt one.but pls, do it in a mature way n respect each indvidual.how?u may ask.

well, personal life experience here again.like 7ing n mi.y r we tat close?coz we dare to tell each other wat we dun like bt each other face t face.we dun do it behind each other's back n so called "backstab".tats how we r brought closer n slowly, our trust is there!

u get my pt?im not trying to pick on any particular individual here.juz wanted to say smthn bt this.coz ppl ard mi seemed so bothered bt this issue..not juz 1 fren but a few.haha.so i'll juz post it here..n everi1 can take the advices?instead of mi repeating!u can c my blog n feel consoled!coz im always here!lalala!

fer mi, i've learnt how to go thru this.

firstly, be urself!it's the most impt thing okies!coz u r hu u r!stop trying to imitate or stuff..3 words fer u if u r trying so hard, waste of time ! =)

secondly, take all critisms positively.yes, they r mean.sum said it in a hurting way, well coz they dunno how to express it nicely.dun blame them alrite?like mi, sum cant express themselves well.yes, accept it with a 'thank you' or 'i'll work on it, thanks' . yes, thanks them fer their precious views bt u.coz it's wat they said tat changed u into a better person.

get my pt?no 1 is perfect.no 1 can b either!1 more critism = 1 more area to improve on.u cant b perfect, but at least u can get better! =) so thanks all those hu've hurt u fer they made u stronger!

i thank 7ing - fer all those ups n downs we went thru together
i thank Beechin - fer all those quarrellings n stuff!u trained mi wells!n we r now gd bud!hehe =)
i thank Yuwei, Junjie, Weepeng - fer all those best fren times we had.thou no longer tat close, i appreciated those u all gave during my sec 4 yr!thanks..
i thank my bball mates - fer all those unhappy n happy times on court!i learnt tat wat happens in court muz not b brought into our life outside the court n vice versa.
i thanks mindy, yupei, weilin - fer understanding mi for being so direct, for letting mi b myself this poly life, for accepting mi!
i thanks everi1 who once crossed my life.thankies!u hurt mi, u picked mi up.thanks!

im seriously thinking of doing up a evaluation open to all bt mi.yes ALL, Gd or Bad!haha..i appreciate all tat..i noe sum ppl out there hate mi.but thanks, i'll change fer u, i promise!haha!i wan to b a better person!yes.it's u ppl hu r going to hlp mi!thanks ya!but provided i get done with, once n fer all my OBC QUIZ tml!!!!YES NOW!haha..i'll blog soon!

kitty & khad - dun b sad alrite?u gurls have mi!thou i dun seem to care but u noe in my heart u stand a place!i mean it!

mindy - thanks fer tml's breakast =) hehe!

yupei & weilin - i lurve u gurls too u noe rite!haha!

reuben - dun b sad alreadi lar..i noe u wun b reading this but ya..take care.rem buddha muz hug ur leg?cheer up bud!

benwong - studi hard!n ur ronald mac!hahaha!

huiling - veri long nv tok!miss mi?lol!haha!

7ing - i miss u =( i realli do

Dar - i miss u veri much =( lurve ya!muacks!

forgive and forget.de rao ren chu qian rao ren.ren yi shi feng ping lang jing, tui yi bu hai kuo tian kong.